Thursday, May 19, 2016

Thank the folks born in the years just before the mid-century baby boom for post-America's narcissism - says someone in that age bracket

I've had my differences with Roger L. Simon for a few months - to be precise, since the beginning of the Squirrel-Hair phenomenon. It has, for me, placed him in that category of once-admired conservatives who lost their moorings in their utter fascination with the man-of-action-not-theory real-estate mogul.

Now that I think of it, it goes back a bit earlier, to Simon's position that the freedom-of-religion crowd (that would be me) was picking the wrong battle re: homosexual "marriage."

But credit must be given where it is due. He has written an incisive and important piece at Commentary today, in which he coins a term, pre-boomers, to describe his own demographic, and cites the birth years of some of its most iconic figures to help the reader arrive at the point to be made:

John Lennon, born in 1940; Tom Hayden, in 1939; Abbie Hoffman, in 1936; Gloria Steinem, in 1934; Allen Ginsberg, 1926; and Timothy Leary—apostle of “turn on, tune in, drop out” and virtual patron saint of hippie culture—born in, wait for it, 1920. The game was already well established, the rules already made, before the boomers arrived on the scene. They were just our younger brothers and sisters, trying to play catch-up. They lived in imitation of us, expanding on what we did, playing variations on a theme and commercializing “the Revolution” until it was virtually bred in the bone, the very essence of American and consequently modern European culture. All others were outliers.
And what was the main sociocultural product wrought by this sub-generation? Narcissism. By the end of the 1970s, it was clear that that, not the supposed nobility of a quest for a once-and-for-all transformed world, was the predominant characteristic of this group - and that it would be the defining characteristic of the nation's populace as we moved from being the United States of Americ to post-America:

As far back as 1979, Christopher Lasch published a now famous book The Culture of Narcissism that described the American behavioral patterns as largely narcissistic. According to Lasch, our family structure had produced a personality type consistent with “pathological narcissism.” We were constantly seeking attention from the outside world, making us a nation of insecure weaklings forever in search of validation to tell us we were alive, to give us a raison d’ĂȘtre. Lasch saw the radicals of the ’60s, like the Weather Underground, as manifestations of this pathology. He also cited the “personal growth” movements of the seventies—est, Rolfing, Hare Krishna, various forms of Buddhism, organic food, vegetarianism, and so forth. These belief systems and quasi ideologies continued to gain adherents during the ’80s and ’90s and on into the current century with writers like David Brooks and Charles Murray documenting how what was once youthful rebellion became the norms of the contemporary bourgeoisie. The Generation of ’68 and its followers had gone mainstream, transmogrifying radical symbols into specific forms of conspicuous consumption. Everything was smeared. A trip to Whole Foods in a Tesla became the equivalent of striking a blow against world hunger.
The election of Barack Obama was the apotheosis of this melding of lifestyle with political worldview. That he celebrated his victory in front of Grecian columns was symbolic in more ways than one. Narcissus was in the house—both on stage and in the audience. The “me” generation had found its perfect leader.
Toward the  end of his essay, Simon lapses into the half-baked-ness that demonstrates how his former left-wing orientation has kept his conservatism from fully developing, saying that social conservatives (what those of us who are that call adherents to Judeo-Christian values) exhibit this narcissism as well, thinking they know how their fellow citizens should live.

Well, there is a sense in which that's true, but I would say it's born of humility. We didn't invent the rules about which we're vocal. They are The Word, revealed to us - a species collectively and individually in need of grace - by a sovereign Creator who must be regarded with awe and whom we dispute at our own risk.

And one more thing: Why does not Simon even mention his new enthusiasm: Donald Trump, the crowning example of the narcissism Simon has so consummately depicted?

I defy Simon to find a shred of narcissism in these words of Brian Myers at Caffeinated Thoughts, writing on the juncture at which we find ourselves, with Trump having eliminated all GOP opposition:

My hope for our present time lies in the fact that God has demonstrated how gracious He can be with wicked people and wicked nations. Consider His willingness to spare the entire city of Sodom for the sake of ten righteous people. Or, when we yearn for righteous civil leaders and we are disappointed as so many of us are right now, consider righteous King Josiah who rather surprisingly came after so many generations of wicked kings. God has shown that, when we might least expect it, He is pleased to show mercy. Therein lies my spiritual hope for our nation.

Take the next step, Roger. Take a spiritual view of this narcissism you rightly diagnose. And join us in praying to be healed of it.



7 comments:

  1. “What was the main sociocultural product wrought by this sub-generation? Narcissism.”
    In our post Psychology society, narcissism is a word that has been made mainstream. Twenty years ago the over whelming majority of people had no idea of its meaning. Now that every college kid with an Associate’s degree in Psychology attempts to make use of their education, its definition and implications have been changed and a bit watered down. However, like many other disorders, the new narcissism has become a norm. Maybe the reason it has become such a common part of the lexicon is because it is overtly present and representative of our society. Social media is a playground for the narcissist, an open forum for the ‘look at me’ aspect of the afflicted. The narcissist is always right, and by default those who do not share their opinions are wrong. We are all somewhat guilty of this. I know I am concerned with me. What is best for me and what will bring the most meaning and most pleasure in my life. I firmly believe that the things I have found that are best for me, are the same things that would best serve others. Does that make me a narcissist? By way of the watered down definition of the word, I think it might be easy to say; Yes.
    The problem as I see it, is in the framework from which we derive our truth, formulate ideology and our best practices. Does a well thought out belief system with guide lines and over 2000 years of tradition have the same credibility as a live by the seat of your pants philosophy? Today, most don’t have a constitution or covenant (no rule book), instead they employ an unsystematic standard of their own making, often based on emotion, feel good feelings, and the collective formulation of the other self-enlightened voices, with no real desire to change behavior, only ideology. Without a concrete base line, there is no cognitive dissonance, only cognitive justification which leads to cognitive anarchy. It becomes very easy to rationalize or justify anything. The latent effect is a homemade quasi-kind of morality that masquerades as a belief system. Throw in some good deeds and notions of social justice, (that hardly any truly practice) and there you have it! A modern belief system that promotes the feel good kind of narcissism that is so prevalent today. It is as fickle as a teenage girl.
    Jesus said, “By their fruit you will know them.” Fact is, most of those on the list of “most iconic figures”, didn’t fare to well. Failed relationships, addictions, suicidal children and early deaths. Hoffman was 52 at the time of his death, caused by phenobarbital and liquor, and we all know what happened to John Lennon. Wasn’t it John Lennon that said, “All You Need is Love”? But what does that love look like? Lying in bed with a harlot in a luxury hotel for days, smoking weed and telling others to “Imagine no possessions, No need for greed or hunger”? Words (a dream) with no plan of action attached to them; they are meaningless, and this misappropriated ideology lead us to the same failures today.
    That is where the Bible comes in. With all its contradictions, cultural bias, though verses, and even motives, it is not only the revelation of God, but a formulated plan and life coach for all of mankind. Unlike John Lennon’s example, my book explains love, provides a plan of action and gives countless examples. The cure for the narcissist is found in Mark 12:30-31, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.” “Therein lies my spiritual hope for our nation.”

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  2. Great insights, Dereck. One point you make that really sticks to my ribs is that living by the seat of one's pants does not result in cognitive dissonance, but rather cognitive justification.

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  3. Never forget the parable of the prodigal son. And the words of the prayer the Lord advised that we pray, where all we ask for are simply: 1) our daily bread this day; 2)forgiveness for our trespasses as we forgive others; and 3) to be led not into temptation, but delivered from evil. And the Beatitudes which turn every worldly (narcissistic) thing upside down. Addiction is now known as a disease and there are many who scrape bottom and bounce back up and then go out into the world to help others do the same. In other words, it ain't over till it's over.

    Ripping into vegetarianism, various forms of Buddhism, and organic food is gross judgmentalism, which the world has always needed less of, not more.

    And none of the above adequately explains Keith Richards.

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  4. The fascination in our society with eastern thought, weird new forms of "body work" and vegetarianism and organic foods was all part of the countercultural impetus, an adolescent desire to turn against the square old underpinnings of Western civilization

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  5. It's no coincidence that at the checkout stands of health-food grocery stores, particularly if they're run as co-ops, along with Buddhist magazines like Tricycle and magazines on sustainability and feminism, you'll see leftist political opinion magazines like Mother Jones. National Review and The Weekly Standard? Nowhere to be found.

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  6. Don't ignore the American Transcendalists, who you might deem the devil too, I dunno.

    Transcendentalism was rooted in English and German Romanticism, the Biblical criticism of Herder and Schleiermacher, the skepticism of Hume, and the transcendental philosophy of Immanuel Kant and of German Idealism. It was also influenced by Indian religions, especially the Upanishads.

    A core belief was in the inherent goodness of both people and nature. Transcendentalists believed that society and its institutions ultimately corrupted the purity of the individual, and had faith that people are at their best when truly "self-reliant" and independent.

    So bug off, moralists. Let everyone be who seeks to be truly free!

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  7. Well, golly gee, freak me out, no National Review or The Weekly Standard at a health food store? What are you doing slumming at one of those places anyhow? And what in the world is wrong with Buddhism? A strong argument can be advanced that it is not even a religion. Certainly what it is said that the Buddha said is that we all must seek for ourselves. Same thing Jesus said, but he promised we would find.

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